I can relate to all the questions we receive on a personal level because once upon a time, I too was banging my head against the table in an effort to understand .It wasn’t an easy process, but I eventually reached a point where it all made sense and all my questions and confusions suddenly evaporated.Show him how happy it made you when he did such and such.Nothing is more attractive and appealing to a man than a woman who is thoroughly with him.This doesn’t mean you have a great and profound relationship, it doesn’t really mean…anything.MORE- Ask a Guy: When a Guy Doesn’t Text Back Guys don’t think about relationships as often as women do. It doesn’t mean they don’t care; it’s just not a central point of focus.For instance, let’s say a woman is in a truly amazing relationship and the only problem is her man has yet to say those three not-so-little words.
After some time has passed and the relationship is a bit more established, this urge isn’t as pressing and it begins to feel like work.
The fact that a man doesn’t text you as much or as often as you’d like doesn’t mean he doesn’t care about you – he’s usually just focusing on something else and most men have a difficult time seeing beyond a given task at hand.
This is hard for most women to understand because women can switch from one task to the next and back again with much more ease.
I don’t know what the biggest relationship concern was back in the days of touch-tone phones, but these days, it’s all about a guy’s texting habits: why he used to text so much in the beginning and then stopped, why he takes so long to reply, why he disappears for days at a time, why his texts are so short, etc., etc.
The really sad/funny thing is that men have NO idea how intensely their texting habits are being scrutinized. There are all kinds of reasons why this is such an issue for women and why men are so oblivious to it – reasons we’ve discussed at length in previous articles– but the takeaway is that this whole thing is a non-issue for men. Yeah, they’ll text a lot in the beginning when they’re trying to win you over, but it’s not sustainable or realistic to continue at that level indefinitely.
different, yet we can’t seem to figure each other out.